September 13, 2026

You “Experienced” It, Mark. But What Did You Do?

Mark Stephens describes years of legal battles, financial consequences, family changes and rebuilding as lessons he “experienced.” But there is a difference between surviving consequences and taking responsibility for helping create them. If Mark wants to talk about fruit, the gate has to work both ways.
September 7, 2026

Everyone Loves Self-Discipline Until the Medicine Bottle Has Their Name on It

Everyone loves self-discipline when it is advice for somebody else. It gets considerably less inspirational when the medicine bottle has your own name on it. Mark Stephens’ post about healing and discipline raises an obvious question: what happens when the medicine is accountability?
August 16, 2025

The Work That Never Gets Done

The saddest part of this story is not that time has been taken from him—it’s that he has chosen to give it away. He was able to drive 36 hours round trip to pick up a dog. He was willing to sit at a graduation he wasn’t legally allowed to attend. He travels to play pickleball. Yet he cannot take the single step required to begin the process of seeing his children again. The pathway has been clear, but it remains undone. Not because it was impossible, but because he chose not to walk it.