It is hard to take “I miss him” seriously when there is time to animate an old photo, post it publicly, and perform grief online, but still no real effort to complete the one in-person step required to begin the process of seeing Liam.
Mark claims he invested $700,000 into a home during the same period he told the court he was broke and couldn’t pay child support. Court records versus Facebook persona — a contradiction that exposes the pattern of projection, inflation, and evasion.
Mark Stephens posted, “When you lie!!! You curse yourself. Reap what you sow.” For once, he’s absolutely right—because every lie he’s sown is sprouting in full view. From perjury and forgery to stolen hats, hecklers at children’s games, and coercing his son with a fake “contract,” the cursed harvest is his own making.
The saddest part of this story is not that time has been taken from him—it’s that he has chosen to give it away. He was able to drive 36 hours round trip to pick up a dog. He was willing to sit at a graduation he wasn’t legally allowed to attend. He travels to play pickleball. Yet he cannot take the single step required to begin the process of seeing his children again. The pathway has been clear, but it remains undone. Not because it was impossible, but because he chose not to walk it.
We live in the space between anger and sadness—anger at the attacks and refusal to do the work, and sadness for two boys who deserve a father willing to choose them. He could travel for a dog or to play pickleball, but not for the one appointment that could start rebuilding trust. Maybe someday he’ll choose differently. Until then, our love for Nathan and Liam never wavers.