Introduction

In a world where personal accountability is optional and hashtags cure hypocrisy, we find ourselves once again analyzing the public musings of Victory in Marriage’s favorite spiritual warrior.

His latest post proclaims that “Anything can be fixed” — presumably including spelling mistakes like “adultry” (because why bother with spellcheck when you’re busy portraying yourself as righteous online?).

But this isn’t just a misspelled sermon. It’s an entire blueprint for how to weaponize spirituality for sympathy while sidestepping inconvenient realities like court orders, medical advice, and actual parenting.

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“Adultry” and Other Convenient Oversights

Let’s start with the obvious:
While he mourns being “the victim of adultry,” this same individual hasn’t fulfilled any of his court-mandated obligations to restore contact with his children. No domestic violence assessment completed, no mental health assessment pursued — just endless platitudes on Facebook while court orders gather dust.

To be fair, poor spelling itself isn’t a measure of intelligence… but here’s the kicker:
👉 Every device capable of posting to social media today includes spellcheck.
So to consistently misspell “adultery” as “adultry” takes more than ignorance — it takes deliberate avoidance. A choice. A metaphor for how carefully he ignores uncomfortable truths in all areas of life.

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The Hashtag Halo Effect

The post is drenched in hashtags:

#VictoryInMarriage #BeRestored #RestorationIsPossible #BiblicalPrinciples #PrayForYourMarriage

Ironically, the author neglects the most appropriate hashtag of all:

#VictoryInNarrativeControl

Because what’s really happening here is classic DARVO:

• Deny: Any personal wrongdoing
• Attack: The ex-spouse for alleged sins
• Reverse Victim and Offender: Present himself as the long-suffering martyr in need of public affirmation

This is not about healing a marriage.
It’s about laundering a reputation.

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Facts vs. Faith Posturing

Let’s remind readers of the real-world context behind this public virtue signaling:

• Court-mandated requirements ignored:
  It’s been over 500 days since he was ordered to complete evaluations — assessments that would be the bare minimum first step to reunifying with his children.
• Child support failures:
  Sporadic payments at best, with excuses always ready for why it’s not his fault.
• Medical interference:
  Documented attempts to undermine his own child’s psychiatric and nutritional treatment, despite clear clinical warnings about the consequencesDr. Rao.
• Event behavior:
  Disruptive appearances at children’s sports events where his companion yelled vulgarities and political insults at parents and children alike, while he sat laughing and filmingRob_Peters_Mark_Stephen….

But online?
He’s the misunderstood faithful husband just praying for restoration.

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The Real “Victory”

The most unsettling irony here:
While this man proclaims that “Anything can be fixed,” it’s his children who’ve truly been restored — but in his absence.

His boys are thriving, making emotional progress, healing from the years of chaos, and catching up on lost childhood — precisely because they are no longer subjected to his undermining influence.

In this case, the absence of the father has been the catalyst for the restoration he claims to value so much.

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Conclusion

So when you see that hashtag-laden post with a Bible verse and a vague accusation of adultery… pause for a moment.

Consider that what’s being marketed as “restoration” is actually a carefully staged performance for sympathy.
The spelling mistake? A perfect metaphor:
Carelessness dressed up as sincerity.
Neglect packaged as moral guidance.

And if “anything can be fixed,” maybe that should start with logging into court-ordered platforms, asking about your children’s well-being, and showing up — not just on Facebook, but where it matters.