Narcissism Unmasked, Part 1: Grandiosity
September 10, 2025
$700,000 for a House… But Broke in Court?
September 10, 2025Mark’s posts today make one thing abundantly clear: his entire identity is built on three things — projection, chaos, and never being accountable.
Projection
He warns: “The biggest gaslighting tricks women don’t want you to catch on to.”
He insists: “Some of y’all want out, but then yet you want the perks of being in the marriage. That’s not independence, honey, that’s selfishness.”
But these aren’t insights — they’re projections. The very “gaslighting” and “selfishness” he accuses others of are the documented tactics he uses himself. Forcing Liam to sign a false “contract,” twisting narratives in court filings, and presenting himself online as the abandoned parent — all are examples of his own manipulations mirrored outward.
Chaos
He lectures: “Put kids first.”
He declares: “Actions speak louder than words.”
Meanwhile, his own record tells another story. At Nathan’s basketball game, he laughed while his guest shouted obscenities and political slogans at parents and children, filming the chaos instead of stepping in. In medical meetings, he derailed progress with conspiracy theories. Online, he posts inflammatory content designed to stir outrage rather than show responsibility.
Chaos isn’t an accident — it’s the atmosphere he creates.
Never Accountable
He posts: “You can’t spend all your time trying to tear a man down, take him for all he’s worth, back and forth in court, trying to take custody, alienate his children, and then turn around and act like you’re the victim.”
Yet accountability is the one thing he refuses. Court-ordered mental health and domestic violence evaluations? Not started. Parenting plan requirements? Ignored. Days since he last asked his children how they are? Staggering. The clear path to reconnecting with his sons has been spelled out for him again and again — but he has chosen silence, delay, and blame.
What He Says vs. What He Does
- “Put kids first.” → Pays for new pickleball paddles but refuses child support and medical responsibilities.
- “Actions speak louder than words.” → All words online, no action in court, treatment, or reunification.
- “The biggest gaslighting tricks women don’t want you to catch on to.” → Forces his son to sign a false “contract” denying his own diagnosis.
- “Some of y’all want out but still want the perks of marriage.” → Still trying to claim ownership of a house that was never his.
- “You can’t alienate kids from their father and then act like the victim.” → Hasn’t even asked how his children are doing in hundreds of days.
The Truth According to Mark
Mark often claims: “I’m about accountability and truth.”
But this is the most hollow statement of all. Not only has he failed to complete a single court-ordered evaluation, he has also shown a lifelong pattern of twisting facts even when the truth would sound better.
- When caught wearing a stolen baseball hat, he gave three different stories to explain how he got it — none of them true.
- In medical meetings, he claimed a nationally recognized diagnosis (ARFID) was invented by doctors to make money.
- He has told his children they are “obese” while doctors documented they were medically malnourished and growth-arrested.
This isn’t truth. This is distortion as default. For Mark, honesty isn’t even on the table — the story changes depending on what makes him look less guilty.
So when he talks about being “about truth,” understand: Mark lies when he needs to, and he lies even when the truth would sound better.
The Pattern Today
Mark’s posts read like a confession in reverse. What he accuses others of is what he himself is doing. His words are loud, his posts frequent, but his actions are absent.
The only barrier between Mark and his children is Mark himself.



