Mark’s latest share comes dressed up as wisdom but falls apart the moment you hold it up to his own record.

“Some of you ladies need to start treating divorce less like a lottery ticket and more on… I need to look in the mirror and do a little reflective work.”

The irony writes itself. Mark is the one claiming ownership of a house that was never his. Tori owned that home before they even met. Reflection? He’s staring into the mirror but only sees excuses and entitlement.

“You can’t spend all your time trying to tear a man down, take him for all he’s worth, back and forth in court, trying to take custody, alienate his children, and then turn around and act like you’re the victim.”

Classic DARVO. Mark has left behind a documented trail of abuse, chaos, and manipulation. Witnesses like Rob Peters describe his attention-seeking and disruptive behavior at youth sports. Medical professionals like Dr. Rao have documented how he undermined his own son’s treatment and forced him to sign a bogus “contract”. Every relationship follows the same pattern: destroy, manipulate, then reverse the roles so Mark can play the victim.

“Then I’m so confused, because some of y’all want out, but then yet you want the perks of being in the marriage. That’s not independence, honey, that’s selfishness.”

What perks? Melissa and Tori moved on, rebuilt, and refused to make him the center of their lives. The only one clinging to “perks” is Mark—whether it’s housing, financial control, or using his children as props for sympathy.

“These women build their whole content around bashing their ex-husband… it’s a bunch of negative cackling hens.”

False. Neither Melissa nor Tori speak about him publicly. They’ve chosen silence. Mark is the only one building an entire platform around his exes. His feed revolves around three things:

1. Claims of alienation.
2. Complaints about Tori “cheating.”
3. Pickleball—though that’s a distant third.

“If he’s a crappy father and a crappy husband, chances are, before you open those legs, he was a crappy man and a crappy boyfriend… let’s have some accountability.”

Both Melissa and Tori have shown accountability. They admit they chose the wrong man. But it wasn’t chance—it was calculated manipulation. Mark used scripture, “God talk,” and love-bombing to rush into marriages. The abuse and control came after the vows. That’s not their failure of accountability. That’s Mark’s deception.

The truth is simple:
Mark’s entire message is a closed loop.

• Alienation: ignoring his own refusal to follow court orders.
• Victimhood: recasting documented abuse as “false allegations.”
• Pickleball paddles: buying $150 toys while claiming he can’t afford child support.

That’s not reflection. That’s deflection.