šŸŽ­ Blog Post: Mark’s Masterclass in ā€œParenting by Performanceā€
July 10, 2025
"The Bremers: proof that sometimes kindness shows up before the full backstory. ā¤ļøšŸ˜¬"
“Support or Shelter? Mark’s New Circle”
July 10, 2025
šŸŽ­ Blog Post: Mark’s Masterclass in ā€œParenting by Performanceā€
July 10, 2025
"The Bremers: proof that sometimes kindness shows up before the full backstory. ā¤ļøšŸ˜¬"
“Support or Shelter? Mark’s New Circle”
July 10, 2025

šŸŽ­ The Waiting Game: Mark’s Masterclass in ā€œFatherhoodā€

Mark Anthony Stephens has rebranded himself — no longer just a father, but now a storyteller.
Not a participant in his children’s lives.
Not a provider.
Not a protector.
But a narrator — carefully crafting chapter after chapter of the ā€œFather’s Loveā€ Saga for his online audience.

Let’s be honest: this isn’t about the boys.
This is about Mark’s big plan — to sit quietly on the sidelines while court orders keep him at bay, and then, the moment his children turn 18 and step outside the legal protections, swoop in and unload ā€œhis side of the storyā€.

And what a story it will be!

  • Not based on therapy.
  • Not based on accountability.
  • Not based on actual parenting.
  • But based entirely on how many likes and comments he’s collected on Facebook.

ā³ Parenting… Eventually

It’s fascinating, really — most parents try to be present, to nurture, to support, to earn their child’s trust every day.

Mark?
He’s innovating.
Why waste time showing up when you can simply wait them out?

Never mind the court-mandated No Contact Order, the domestic violence evaluation he hasn’t completed, or the mental health assessment that remains untouched nearly 550 days later. Those are just minor details.

Instead, Mark’s approach is simple:
šŸ“ Step 1: Ignore all requirements to reunify responsibly.
šŸ“ø Step 2: Post daily tributes to ā€œhow much you love your boys.ā€
šŸŽÆ Step 3: When they turn 18, bombard them with your curated narrative of victimhood and ā€œtruth-telling.ā€


šŸŽ¤ Mark’s Version of the Work

Real parents spend sleepless nights tending to their kids’ needs.
Mark spends sleepless nights carefully selecting Bible verses to caption old photos and rehearsing how to deliver the line:

ā€œI wasn’t absent… I was alienated.ā€

Never mind that he hasn’t logged into Our Family Wizard since June 17th (and a whopping four times since November 2023). Never mind that he didn’t even ask how Liam was doing after a life-threatening illness.

It’s all part of the plan:

ā€œWhy repair the relationship now when you can blame everyone else later?ā€


šŸ•³ļø When the No Contact Order Ends…

Make no mistake: Mark isn’t doing the work so he can see his children now.
He’s doing the PR work so he can target them later — when they’re finally out from under the protective umbrella of court orders and guardianship.

He’s simply biding his time, banking posts and prepping screenshots for his inevitable debut:

ā€œThe Truth You Never Knew: My Children Were Stolen From Me (And Here’s a Collage to Prove It).ā€


šŸ’” The Takeaway

While Mark builds his ā€œbrand of fatherhoodā€ online, his actual children are thriving — precisely because he’s not around.

So here’s a pro-tip for all aspiring ā€œfathersā€ like Mark:

If you’re spending more time creating your image of fatherhood than actually being a father…
You’re not waiting to tell your side of the story —
You’re waiting to target your children the minute they’re unprotected.

šŸ‘ Bravo, Mark. Truly, a modern masterclass in absentee-parenting-as-content-creation.


ā¤ļø A Serious Note (For the Boys, If They Ever Read This)

To Liam and Nathan:
If you ever come across this post — know this isn’t really about mocking your father for sport. It’s about protecting the truth and protecting you.

You have done nothing wrong.
You have shown courage and strength simply by surviving the confusion and pain that came with all of this.

Your father’s absence, his distortions, and his refusal to do the work to reunify responsibly — that’s not your fault, nor your responsibility to fix.

You are loved.
You are cared for.
You have been supported every single day by people who show up — without needing an audience, without needing social media likes or attention.

And when you are older, when you reflect back on these years, please remember:

  • We didn’t protect you from him because we wanted to keep you apart.
  • We protected you for you — because love sometimes means holding the hard line when someone refuses to be safe or accountable.

We believed, and still believe, in your right to grow up free from harm, manipulation, and pressure to carry adult burdens too soon.

Whatever story your father chooses to tell later, know this:
The truth isn’t in his posts — it’s in your own experiences, your own memories, and the care you were shown by the people who were actually there.