The Bad Mom Myth: Mark’s Favorite Lie
September 1, 2025
🧠 The Questions Mark Can’t Answer — Part 5
September 2, 2025
The Bad Mom Myth: Mark’s Favorite Lie
September 1, 2025
🧠 The Questions Mark Can’t Answer — Part 5
September 2, 2025

Every Accusation Is an Admission? Let’s Test That, Mark.

Mark loves to repeat one of his favorite borrowed lines: “Every Accusation Is an Admission.” He sprinkles it across his social media like a magic spell, as if saying it enough times will make it true for everyone but himself.

But what if we take him at his word? What if we actually apply his own mantra to his own behavior?

The result is a devastating mirror — one that reveals not the image Mark wants to sell, but the one his children, doctors, coaches, and community have lived with for years.

Here are 25 ways Mark’s accusations have become his own confessions:


  1. He accuses others of creating chaos — yet he laughed while his guest disrupted Nathan’s basketball game with profanity and politics, filming instead of protecting his son.
  2. He accuses others of deception — yet Dr. Rao documented how he misrepresented medical facts, denied Liam’s diagnosis, and forced his son to sign a bogus “contract.”
  3. He accuses others of abandonment — yet he has ignored 654 days of opportunities to ask his children how they are, even when directly challenged to do so.
  4. He accuses others of financial irresponsibility — yet he burned down his house in the middle of IRS liens and unpaid child support.
  5. He accuses others of controlling the narrative — yet he floods Facebook daily with memes, reels, and “as you can see” monologues while refusing court-ordered evaluations.
  6. He accuses others of vindictiveness — yet Melissa and I showed up to every appointment, every game, every meeting, while he undermined care and berated professionals.
  7. He accuses others of instability — yet he was arrested for violating restraining orders and even threatened a Guardian ad Litem.
  8. He accuses others of not putting kids first — yet he prioritizes pickleball, cross-country moves, and late-night preaching over fatherhood.
  9. He accuses others of dishonesty — yet he spun three lies about how he “acquired” a hat that belonged to a crying batgirl.
  10. He accuses others of betrayal — yet he betrayed his children’s trust with coercion, absence, and manipulation.
  11. He accuses others of poor parenting — yet professionals unanimously documented his behavior as harmful and medically dangerous to Liam.
  12. He accuses others of selfishness — yet he consistently puts ego, image, and comfort above his children’s stability.
  13. He accuses others of hiding truth — yet he refused evaluations, misrepresented diagnoses, and spread misinformation.
  14. He accuses others of playing victim — yet he floods social media with alienation and abuse claims while doing nothing to restore parenting.
  15. He accuses others of hypocrisy — yet he posts scripture while living in lies, contempt, and neglect.
  16. He accuses others of silencing him — yet he’s the loudest voice, posting multiple times a day while ignoring court-approved tools like OFW.
  17. He accuses others of being untrustworthy — yet his own record is filled with theft, lies, and broken promises.
  18. He accuses others of being destructive — yet his legacy includes a burned-down house, torpedoed businesses, and children left emotionally battered.
  19. He accuses others of lacking integrity — yet he ducked out of child support, refused mandated treatment, and blamed everyone else for the consequences.
  20. He accuses others of immorality — yet he smeared pastors, accused family of conspiracies, and projected his own hidden struggles onto his children.
  21. He accuses others of alienation — yet he’s the only parent refusing the court’s clear reunification steps.
  22. He accuses others of being controlling — yet he’s the one who coerced Liam into signing a false “contract” and called him “sperm” in front of providers.
  23. He accuses others of disrespect — yet he laughed at chaos, mocked professionals, and degraded coaches, parents, and even his own kids.
  24. He accuses others of irresponsibility — yet he let opportunities slip by, skipped hearings, and chose memes over medical care.
  25. He accuses others of being the problem — yet every accusation points back to him. Every. Single. One.

He accuses others of dishonesty — yet his own record is a case study in lies:

  1. The Batgirl Hat Incident — lied about how he got a specialty team hat, giving three conflicting stories.
  2. Uniform Payment — promised to reimburse the league for Nathan’s replacement uniform after the fire but never paid.
  3. The Fire — claimed the house fire was an accident that was caused by the boys, while the fire marshall found that he and Tori lied to protect themselves and financial records show IRS liens and child support pressure closing in.
  4. The Contract — forced Liam to sign a fake document denying his diagnosis, then claimed it was Liam’s true voice.
  5. Doctor’s Notes — misrepresented Dr. Rao as the source of a frightening list of side effects — something Dr. Rao flatly denied.
  6. ARFID Denial — claimed Kartini Clinic “made up” the diagnosis for profit, despite it being in the DSM-5 since 2013.
  7. Genetic Data Twist — misused Liam’s pharmacogenomic results to argue against safe medications.
  8. Obesity Lie — told Liam he was obese, when he was at the 1st percentile for weight and height.
  9. “I’m Doing the Work” — repeatedly claimed he was completing court requirements, while never starting evaluations.
  10. Alienation Narrative — says Melissa and Russ blocked him, while records show he refused every clear path back.
  11. Financial Hardship — claimed he couldn’t afford support or evaluations, yet moved states, traveled, and played pickleball daily.
  12. “Kids First” — preaches about putting kids first online, while skipping games, appointments, and milestones.
  13. Restraint Order Violations — claimed he was falsely accused of harassment, yet was arrested and held in contempt for violations.
  14. GAL Bias — accused the Guardian ad Litem of bias, when Tori & GAL reported he screamed and threatened her.
  15. False Poverty — claimed poverty in court, but boasted online about lifestyle choices and purchases.
  16. “As You Can See” — tried to sell himself as a present, stable father, while public records and witnesses show the opposite.
  17. The Baseball Cap — wore a specialty-ordered cap meant for coaches/sponsors and pretended it was his.
  18. Our Family Wizard — claimed he couldn’t log in, though he had already logged in and responded once.
  19. Due Process Lie — claimed he was denied due process, despite having hearings, counsel, and clear steps laid out.
  20. “Victim of False Allegations” — repeated endlessly, while evidence, medical reports, and witness testimony piled up.
  21. Business Torpedoing — pretended his failed ventures were bad luck, when they were deliberate moves to dodge child support.
  22. Glaucoma Excuse — claimed worsening glaucoma made him unable to work, yet played pickleball and traveled freely.
  23. Religious Mask — posts about prayer and honesty, while living in contradiction: lies, contempt, and abuse.
  24. “Best Friend Dad” — told the boys he was their buddy, while undermining their treatment, safety, and stability.
  25. “Russ is the Problem” — blamed stepdad for conflict, while professionals documented Mark as the sole disruptor.
  26. “Melissa is Vindictive” — accused her of blocking access, while records show she begged him to complete requirements.
  27. “I Provide for Them” — claimed financial provision, while being tens of thousands behind in support.
  28. “Kids Want to See Me” — claimed the boys were begging for him, while evidence shows they dreaded visits due to anxiety and chaos.
  29. “Truth Always Wins” — posts scripture about truth, while spinning lie after lie to anyone who will listen.
  30. “Every Accusation Is an Admission” — perhaps his biggest lie of all, because by his own standard, every accusation he throws is his own confession.

The Closing Mirror

Mark believes he can sell people an image with phrases like “as you can see.” But what we actually see is simple: a man who weaponizes accusations to cover his own reflection.

If every accusation is an admission, then every single accusation he has hurled outward has already circled back home. The record — medical, legal, and personal — doesn’t need hashtags. It already proves the truth.

And the truth is this: Mark’s words reveal him, not us.