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šŸ“£ ā€œConsecration While Watching Through the Blindsā€

Mark Anthony Stephens, Control, and the Weaponization of a Delayed Divorce

It’s a curious thing to accuse someone of being unfaithful to a marriage you’re actively refusing to end.

But that’s exactly what Mark Anthony Stephens did today—again.

In a post soaked in religious grandstanding and moral superiority, Mark proclaimed:

ā€œYou can’t preach consecration while still legally married and being with another man!ā€

Let’s stop right there.

🧩 The Technical Truth vs. The Weaponized Half-Truth

Mark loves to posture as the righteous husband betrayed, abandoned, and spiritually wronged.

Yes, Tori is still legally married to Mark.
But why?

Because Mark has done everything in his power to make sure that divorce stays legally frozen—not finalized, not progressed, just delayed.

This is not a new tactic. This is the classic abuser’s playbook:

  • Stall the legal process.
  • Refuse to cooperate in court.
  • Avoid mandated evaluations.
  • Weaponize the limbo.
  • Then turn around and publicly condemn the victim for ā€œmoving on too fast.ā€

Mark doesn’t want restoration. He wants a hostage situation with a wedding ring.


šŸ‘ļø Restraining Orders, Blocks, and Obsession in Plain Sight

Let’s also talk about the elephant in the pew:
There is an active restraining order in place.
And Tori has blocked Mark on social media.

So how is Mark still responding almost instantly to her posts?

Because he’s either:

  • Using a burner account,
  • Logging in through someone else’s profile,
  • Having someone monitor her page and report back to him,
  • Or all of the above.

Whichever it is, it’s not normal.
It’s not healthy.
And it sure as hell isn’t consecrated.

This isn’t co-parenting.
It’s not even passive obsession.
It’s active, willful surveillance—in direct defiance of both emotional and legal boundaries.


āš ļø When ā€œGodly Concernā€ Is Actually Digital Stalking

Mark loves to posture as the righteous husband betrayed, abandoned, and spiritually wronged.

But that illusion crumbles the moment you realize:

  • He has no access to Tori’s page unless he’s going around her blocks.
  • He’s watching a woman who’s legally protected from him.
  • He’s creating posts in real time to frame, shame, and spiritually manipulate her—while claiming to be the victim.

This isn’t about faith.
This is stalking disguised as sanctification.wn.